Would you choose your spouse/SO again if you had the chance?

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If you could live your life again, would you choose your same spouse/SO?

:fuckyeah: Hell yes!
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55%
:notbad: Probably yea
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:notsure: Hmm, maybe I'd try contacting that one that got away
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:disgust: I'd prefer someone who refills the soap dispenser every now and then
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:gag: FUCK NO! He/She never replaces the toilet paper roll and is the WORST human ever!
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Devilchrono wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 8:24 am

I get where you're coming from, but at the same time, once you're married, car choices do tend to need to be a joint decision; at least when it comes to the primary cars.

When it came to getting the truck, my wife didn't care what I (we) bought as long as we could afford it. And she wanted to try the FS first since it's what I wanted, and was uncomfortable in it, which is how we ended up with the Colorado.

I had an ex try to dictate what car I drove, she demanded that I get rid of my Mach1 for something more "practical" and was pissed when I refused and eventually replaced it with my Vette. She actually stopped talking to me for a good while because she thought it was a waste of money.
Waste of money?

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Yep. We had a lot of fights about stupid shit like that; cars for her were an appliance and that's it. We were on/off for years after I had the Vette, but it wasn't worth it. My wife gets my obsession with cars, and loves Mustangs herself, but she's also practical and knows we can't be switching cars every 2 years; especially since we're starting a family and need to make sure we're being start with our money.
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Devilchrono wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 8:24 am I get where you're coming from, but at the same time, once you're married, car choices do tend to need to be a joint decision; at least when it comes to the primary cars.

When it came to getting the truck, my wife didn't care what I (we) bought as long as we could afford it. And she wanted to try the FS first since it's what I wanted, and was uncomfortable in it, which is how we ended up with the Colorado.

I had an ex try to dictate what car I drove, she demanded that I get rid of my Mach1 for something more "practical" and was pissed when I refused and eventually replaced it with my Vette. She actually stopped talking to me for a good while because she thought it was a waste of money.
Waste of money?

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I mean... it IS a waste of money, but so are most things.
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Devilchrono wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 8:24 am
Johnny_P wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2017 3:21 pm

She don't care what I drive. I wouldn't let her dictate what I buy anyway.
I get where you're coming from, but at the same time, once you're married, car choices do tend to need to be a joint decision; at least when it comes to the primary cars.

When it came to getting the truck, my wife didn't care what I (we) bought as long as we could afford it. And she wanted to try the FS first since it's what I wanted, and was uncomfortable in it, which is how we ended up with the Colorado.

I had an ex try to dictate what car I drove, she demanded that I get rid of my Mach1 for something more "practical" and was pissed when I refused and eventually replaced it with my Vette. She actually stopped talking to me for a good while because she thought it was a waste of money.
Not even a spouse?? :nope:
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wap wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 12:28 pm
Devilchrono wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 8:24 am

I get where you're coming from, but at the same time, once you're married, car choices do tend to need to be a joint decision; at least when it comes to the primary cars.

When it came to getting the truck, my wife didn't care what I (we) bought as long as we could afford it. And she wanted to try the FS first since it's what I wanted, and was uncomfortable in it, which is how we ended up with the Colorado.

I had an ex try to dictate what car I drove, she demanded that I get rid of my Mach1 for something more "practical" and was pissed when I refused and eventually replaced it with my Vette. She actually stopped talking to me for a good while because she thought it was a waste of money.
Not even a spouse?? :nope:
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:fuckyeah:

I like my gurl better now than the day I married her, 16 years ago.
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Clownshoobie wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 2:45 pm :fuckyeah:

I like my gurl better now than the day I married her, 16 years ago.
Doin' it right.
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haleyann wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 3:29 am I voted that I would prefer someone who refills the soap dispenser... even though I'm single, I am still hanging out with and :dock: with the ex. Our personalities mesh so well, plus life goals and all that match up, so I could see him being my husband if he showed some affection or interest in our relationship.
Right now the soap dispensers are empty and I'm looking elsewhere.
So he just doesn't like you?
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I voted :fuckyeah: and I actually mean that! Were both into cars, four wheeling, ATVs, etc and we have a pretty bad ass garage full of toys because of it. Hes the first I've been with that allows me to have a relationship with my friends, and allows me to be 100% myself, random mini occasional bitch fits and all, so that's HUGE. Everything is just so easy, and it totally works.
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Do Work, Son wrote: Sat Apr 15, 2017 6:09 pm
haleyann wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 3:29 am I voted that I would prefer someone who refills the soap dispenser... even though I'm single, I am still hanging out with and :dock: with the ex. Our personalities mesh so well, plus life goals and all that match up, so I could see him being my husband if he showed some affection or interest in our relationship.
Right now the soap dispensers are empty and I'm looking elsewhere.
So he just doesn't like you?
:dat: :notsure:
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Badassbabe98 wrote: Sat Apr 15, 2017 9:23 pm I voted :fuckyeah: and I actually mean that! Were both into cars, four wheeling, ATVs, etc and we have a pretty bad ass garage full of toys because of it. Hes the first I've been with that allows me to have a relationship with my friends, and allows me to be 100% myself, random mini occasional bitch fits and all, so that's HUGE. Everything is just so easy, and it totally works.
:fuckyeah: for you. Sounds like a great relationship.

Also, :fuckyeah: the n00b found my thread! :)
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Do Work, Son wrote: Sat Apr 15, 2017 6:09 pm
haleyann wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 3:29 am I voted that I would prefer someone who refills the soap dispenser... even though I'm single, I am still hanging out with and :dock: with the ex. Our personalities mesh so well, plus life goals and all that match up, so I could see him being my husband if he showed some affection or interest in our relationship.
Right now the soap dispensers are empty and I'm looking elsewhere.
So he just doesn't like you?
Pretty much. He just likes the :dock:
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haleyann wrote: Sun Apr 16, 2017 12:33 am
Do Work, Son wrote: Sat Apr 15, 2017 6:09 pm

So he just doesn't like you?
Pretty much. He just likes the :dock:
That's kinda :sad:
Why stay with him? Why be with someone who doesn't like the other 98% of you?
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Badassbabe98 wrote: Sat Apr 15, 2017 9:23 pm I voted :fuckyeah: and I actually mean that! Were both into cars, four wheeling, ATVs, etc and we have a pretty bad ass garage full of toys because of it. Hes the first I've been with that allows me to have a relationship with my friends, and allows me to be 100% myself, random mini occasional bitch fits and all, so that's HUGE. Everything is just so easy, and it totally works.
Damn, fresh :meat: is taken.

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wap wrote: Sun Apr 16, 2017 12:57 am
haleyann wrote: Sun Apr 16, 2017 12:33 am

Pretty much. He just likes the :dock:
That's kinda :sad:
Why stay with him? Why be with someone who doesn't like the other 98% of you?
I'm not with him. I broke up with him because he didn't appreciate the rest of me. I just use him for sex now.

And I had a 5/7 date today :fuckyeah:
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Damn, fresh :meat: is taken.

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haleyann wrote: Sun Apr 16, 2017 1:23 am
wap wrote: Sun Apr 16, 2017 12:57 am

That's kinda :sad:
Why stay with him? Why be with someone who doesn't like the other 98% of you?
I'm not with him. I broke up with him because he didn't appreciate the rest of me. I just use him for sex now.

And I had a 5/7 date today :fuckyeah:
Details.
Desertbreh wrote: Tue Dec 05, 2017 1:58 pm At the risk of being sucked into your wedding planner decorative vortex, that is kind of cute.
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haleyann wrote: Sun Apr 16, 2017 1:23 am
wap wrote: Sun Apr 16, 2017 12:57 am

That's kinda :sad:
Why stay with him? Why be with someone who doesn't like the other 98% of you?
I'm not with him. I broke up with him because he didn't appreciate the rest of me. I just use him for sex now.

And I had a 5/7 date today :fuckyeah:
:notsure: Sounds like you're using each other but if it works for you then :aintcare:

Grats on your date! Deets?
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Sno wrote: Sun Apr 16, 2017 8:21 am
haleyann wrote: Sun Apr 16, 2017 1:23 am

I'm not with him. I broke up with him because he didn't appreciate the rest of me. I just use him for sex now.

And I had a 5/7 date today :fuckyeah:
Details.
Me him on bumble. He's a ginger, bearded, pretty greenish eyes. He works in finance, has a black lab. We had planned on going out for ice cream but since it was the first sunny warm day of the year the line was around the block. So we went to a waffle place and had a waffle sundae and mimosas. Then walked around for a while and found a spot to sit and drink beers in the sun.
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max225 wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2017 4:27 pm Some guys still have their H/S cars an GFs... :lolol:
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My Maxima would have like 500,000 miles on it if I still had it. :nuke:
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troyguitar wrote: Fri Apr 14, 2017 10:20 am
I mean... it IS a waste of money, but so are most things.
Living is a waste of money. :aintcare: :dealwithit:
if you ain't wasting money, you ain't living your life. You only live once, life is short.
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dangerous thread is dangerous. Im just here for the comments

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troyguitar wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2017 12:52 pm I'm pretty sure that I'm with the only woman on earth who will put up with me, so I'm going to go with :troywax:
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Big Brain Bradley wrote: Mon Apr 17, 2017 9:06 am dangerous thread is dangerous. Im just here for the comments

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troyguitar wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2017 12:52 pm I'm pretty sure that I'm with the only woman on earth who will put up with me, so I'm going to go with :troywax:
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I would certainly marry my wife again.

I do wish though that she had come into my life a bit later. I still have so much growing up to do and I needed more life experiences. I am trying to learn and get better at being married. But I have a steep learning curve. She and I would be much better off if I was a better person and more mature.
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Barnes93cb wrote: Thu Apr 20, 2017 5:33 am I would certainly marry my wife again.

I do wish though that she had come into my life a bit later. I still have so much growing up to do and I needed more life experiences. I am trying to learn and get better at being married. But I have a steep learning curve. She and I would be much better off if I was a better person and more mature.
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Barnes93cb wrote: Thu Apr 20, 2017 5:33 am I would certainly marry my wife again.

I do wish though that she had come into my life a bit later. I still have so much growing up to do and I needed more life experiences. I am trying to learn and get better at being married. But I have a steep learning curve. She and I would be much better off if I was a better person and more mature.
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